That’s a hard thing to admit because for a long time I thought I was being loving. Mature. Flexible. Forgiving. Stable. Emotionally capable.
Something about the sun and the longer days always gets me thinking, and lately I’ve been noticing where I’ve spent years overcompensating for everyone else.
Smoothing things over first. Reaching out first. Rebuilding trust first. Moving on first.
And eventually I realized: if I stop carrying this relationship emotionally by myself, what actually happens to it?
That question hits. Some connections are mutual. And some only survive because one person keeps dragging them forward.
Am I the only one thinking about this lately?
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We’ve earned every wrinkle. Might as well make more laugh lines together.
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